Culture

Some Wisdom for Men

I loved this Tom Ford quote so much I thought I’d give it a home on my blog. You can find the full interview here.

I think [being fucked] would help [men] understand women. It’s such a vulnerable position to be in, and it’s such a passive position to be in. And there’s such an invasion, in a way, that even if it’s consensual, it’s just very personal. And I think there’s a psyche that happens because of it that makes you understand and appreciate what women go through their whole life, because it’s not just sexual, it’s a complete setup of the way the world works, that one sex has the ability to literally—and is expected to and is wanted to—but also there’s an invasion. And I think that that’s something most men do not understand at all.

~ Tom Ford, GQ Magazine (Dec 2016)

1 comment

  1. Hello,
    Well said but there are other elements into the vulnerability of the token sexual act/position. And we must never forget that vulnerability has been used, quite often, as a power tool from both women and men, as when and where there is a power game then a power gain just comes in!
    kind regards
    LdW
    PS Needless to say that I admire your work. A beautiful man you are with such a beautiful mind. Difficult to find these days. Congratulations and go on.

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